Well, it is a new year, and I while I usually make myself a list of things that I want to accomplish throughout the year, they never seem to make it past January. It’s really never to late to make a decision to make positive changes in your life, whatever those changes might be, and no matter what time of year it is. I am really good at making the lists, but this year I plan to follow through on them. I’ve failed in the past because I’ve simply stated what I wanted to do, and not how I was going to accomplish my goals. I plan to start by setting reasonable goals. If it’s unrealistic, I don’t leave myself any room for failure, or for starting over fresh and trying again.
What are my goals? Well, they’re your typical goals. I checked to see what made the top ten list for the 2010 New Years Resolutions to see how it compared to what my goals are:
- Stop Smoking
- Get Fit
- Lose Weight
- Enjoy Life More
- Quit Drinking
- Get Organized
- Learn Something New
- Get Out of Debt
- Spend More Time with the Family
- Help Others
My list is actually much smaller than this. I am keeping it simple, setting reasonable goals for myself, and allowing myself to not be a perfectionist. If I don’t perfect something over the course of the year I won’t consider it a failure if I am at least able to begin my resolution and make some progress, however small that progress might be. My goals aren’t listed in order of importance, they are just things that I want to do.
Get Fit and Lose Weight. This is actually on my list every year because it’s a necessity for my health. I had to make a lifestyle change to accomplish this goal by eating fewer calories and working out. I don’t so much care for the working out part, but I know it’s a definite requirement for my health.
Learn to sew. I have always wanted to do this. I am not unrealistic though. I don’t expect myself to be an excellent seamstress by the end of the year. I just want to be able to sew craft projects for things in my house. Simple things that don’t require major sewing skills. I do however want to continue to expand on my sewing skills after I acquire the basics though.
Organize and declutter my house. This one seems silly to me, but I like to list it anyway. Organizing and decluttering is a constant necessity at my house to keep things organized and decluttered. It has to be done on an almost daily basis because of the volume of things that come in my house throughout the year. I accomplish this by keeping a bag ready to fill with items that we no longer need or want to take for donations. I also keep my children’s items organized for the two consignment sales that I participate in each year in the spring and fall.
Just keep it simple, don’t stress yourself out, and set small goals.